Jeff, I was thinking the other day, if we ever do come out of this stronger and together, I will once tell him how close he was to loosing me and the kids. He has no clue... Yes he has been lucky because there is an ocean, I am not acting on impulse, I love my kids, and not to say I am a "pillar of strength" that a certain man, was as honorable (if the word is correct) as any man could be... K