Yep, I can't believe I have bought into for a second that I should accommodate those expectations! Maybe.
I think when I read about "collaborative divorce" and how it is better for the kids, I question myself. But, I can't see how nonchalance can lead to instilling any kid of value for marriage. Anyway, it is just too gut wrenching to fake it at this juncture.
I heard recently about a "divorce party" where the kids attended and people brought gifts!!! Please tell me that is only in Lalaland...
