What an interesting addition to my thread! Great minds don't ALL think alike!!!
So....
- more information without me requesting it on what he has been doing away from home
H definitely checks in more often when out... He's never really out of touch if he's not traveling for work, so that wouldn't apply, but he is initiating more contact when traveling...
- more phone conversations in my presence
He does answer the phone more, and I've noticed it's not at "silent" as it was. It wasn't that odd that it was silent though, because he owns a trucking company, and he has a lot of drivers always sending a txt status, coordinating trips, etc...
NOW if he leaves the phone unattended while in my presence, we're onto something! I will say, though, w/his business, it's always been attached to the hip. Nothing new there...
- more general respect towards me, pleases and thank yous
Respect. I'm going to ponder this one...
- started to notice and articulate the odd positive thing about me "oh you are skinny now"
I wish I was skinnier now!!! OK, I'll start to listen for something like that.
-more interest and starting to enjoy kids again.
He's always enjoyed the kids, and is one w/them. Even naughty D18! LOL
Thanks for giving me something to think about!
Last edited by mindblank; 07/15/0908:43 PM.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
