Talk about the queen of Leave it to Beaver living! But, if he wants to resume that type of life, that is a good thing. He has a desire for the normalcy of family and home.
I don't know about the BB, I really haven't told H must, a little since I did the get together, but he also is very private and I don't think he would fully appreciate this.
Talk about assumptions, they can get the best of us.
He is just on a different timetable than you, we can't speed them up, or the potential for damage is great. As much as me all deserve the return to normalcy, they are slower getting there.