You know David is very private and doesn't have any close friends either. I was sort of surprised that he did not have a problem with the BB.
But he finally read some of it, not my thread, and he saw the benefits of it I think. He has talked more than once about posting himself. Of course it hasn't happened but he doesn't get much personal computer time now I think. Of course at the time he read we were pretty desperate for something to help him/us decide which direction to go.
Hope reading 'After the Affair' goes well for you guys.
David read a good part of DR, but it was the discussion part he had problems with, not the reading.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"