I don't think the completely detaching will work, either. The question is will her self esteem ever return? I forget, does she see an IC, as well? How is the MC handling her self deprecating talk?
I wouldn't like being called "the twins dad" either.
Tell her to knock that sh*t off! LOL
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.