Opt,

I bought that book after Bomb #2...when I found out there had been 2 A's...(the last of which was not quite over, little did I know ).

I left it out, CJ never touched it. I mentioned it again after bomb #3 (when the broke off) and he said he read it. I saw him reading part of it, but the man IS a very fast reader.

I think it's a great book and I'm sorry your H responded that way to your enthusiasm. Probably caught him by surprise, they really DO want to forget...but WE need to understand and work through it, don't we?

Keep reading, gain insights, leave the book somewhere obvious. If you have other thoughts on it to share with him...might he respond better at another time? If forewarned? In writing? E-mail?

Just looking at options as what you did (I can sooo relate to your joy..."I get it! "...and then your disappointment when he responded that way ) didn't quite get you the response you wanted!!

Take care,

Shiny