You are very welcome, Pam. Looks like I am definitely much better at helping other people than at helping myself
Weird thing that just happened. I was reading for the first time 'After the affair' and noticed something I had never understood about my H's reactions. So I went and told him 'Hon you know, I had never understood it when you told me that you actually felt relieved when I found out about your A. You have to read this book! It explains everything...' He got up immediately and started to go to work (we had decided to take him first and then go ice skating again). He was obviously uncomfortable with the subject! I kept my cool and told him 'where are you going?' 'To work' 'OK but were we not going with you?''No, I'll go first then pick you up''Fine' Eventually he calmed down and went back to watch TV ("Patton"). Weird ain't it?
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"
