I won't push C at all. It just came up the other day and I asked him if he thought it might help. Apparently not.
I had to laugh (but in the "this is so sad" way) - my H said the exact same thing about the needing to do what he needs to make him happy and also that he didn't want the responsibility of the family (this coming from the guy who has always been very responsible). He even told me he was selfish now and had to be. Scary.
And I also forgot the working out thing. He started that about 8-9 months ago and lost some weight and also actually looks pretty good, really the best since I have known him. He stopped going much at all for a couple of months and tried to fill the void in his life with junk food and the weight started packing back on so he has started back again and is losing a bit again.
I do see very, very small signs of the fog MAYBE starting to lift a bit but it is hard to imagine a lot of days that he may actually come out of this. It is good to hear there is hope!
I also had to laugh at the June Cleaver and Fonz thing - good answers.:)
