Thanks poet. I'm just trying not to make the situation worse for her OR me.
I had a nice chat with the DB coach Jodi yesterday. It was pretty helpful. She suggested I meet with her to talk about dividing stuff up in preparation for my move. Since she is operating out of fear, inadequacy and avoidance ... take the high road, continue do the unexpected, approach this with dignity and compassion. I'm off to meet her in a few. It's not like we have all that much to divide. According to Jodi, she's anticipating me to try to talk her out of it or that I'll try to get her to talk about things, which will only make her run further (if that were possible). So, I'm going in all friendly and ONLY talking about the move and the logistics of it. 15 minutes to talk about logistics and then I'm out. I'm not getting sucked in to talk about the relationship. Thus is the gameplan.
On a weird note, I think that she has back-up there just in case. I have suspicions about a local OM ... am expecting to see him lurking around and am mentally prepared.
