Optimist: I actually trust my intuition a little less now. If you've read through my threads, you know I have a very strongly developed intuition.
However, now I find that I have to be very careful about my sense of intuition on the subject of H & infidelity. My intuition is now colored by flashbacks and moments of paranoid panic that are the natural result of trauma. Since you associate your H's cloths dissapearing with a certain traumatic experience, you could very well be triggering panic that means nothing!
Can I ask you something? What happens if you tell your H straight up what you are feeling and what you are afraid of? Would he resent your fear or welcome the opportunity to reassure you?
