It's natural, but not necessarily accurate, to have worries pop up when our S's seem impatient or to be pulling away.
There could be SOOO many other reasons besides disatisfaction with you, or wanting his cake and eating it too....work woes, fatigue, you name it.
When your mind starts travelling "those" pathways, visualize a STOP sign, and consciously change the flow of your thoughts. Challenge each "guess or hunch", and replace it with something more neutral.
This is all about controlling what you CAN control, and that seldom reaches beyond the confines of your own mind and person!!!
Hope you had a great lunch. I'm a real lunch person. I just enjoyed 45 minutes of chicken soup and a turkey sandwhich with my current novel. I even take the phone off the hook so I'm not disturbed in any way whilst I eat.
I think I owe my poor body and mind that much peace!
