Hey Optimist (uh... hola... two years of HS Spanish) -

I posted this somewhere else, and I think it's true - when I start getting crazy thinging something's wrong, something's coming, what's coming is ususally something I do - the pressure builds until I burst.

Relax - breathe in, breathe out, take a bath, take a walk, get some exercise. Focus on you, not him. Things are going well - you've getting overeager, you want control.

If it helps, take a bath, think about your feelings, and try to uncover the thoughts that led to them.

Anyway, my two cents.

Another thought; for those of us that were limited to HS foreign language - kind of disappointed in that experience. Was taught phrases like "How old is your sister?" which I'm sure would get me killed in Mexico.

- Bill