I would've felt the same. So, knowing this, it should be much easier to move on? The last string is cut, as it were?

Time to get your kids back home. Do all you can within the law and within your own conscience to do so, IMHO.

Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim