Because you are going to...up and down, up and down.....blah, it sucks.
But here's another way to think about things....let's say you quit. No more of his crap. Do you really know for sure the next guy is going to be better? What if he's worse?
This is my new favorite quote: New love is the brightest, and long love is the greatest, but revived love is the tenderest thing known on earth. Thomas Hardy
You are going to go up and down and you are going to have to do your best to not react. I reacted today to some stupid crap and my H just recently said he'd like to come home in a couple of months.....we both have things to work on, but I want to come home.
Words we all want to hear right? Absolutely, but it all takes a long time and it seems very long to us.
But you can do it.
Question....what are his MLC symptoms? Any OW or crazy spending? Partying more?