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My H has been a bit more quiet yesterday and today, and was quite impatient when I called him yesterday


They do go thru cycles like this ... try to ride it out for a week and see what happens. You have spent the last couple of days worring about your H's action. Remember you have no control over what he does, so ask yourself, "What can I do today to make it a better day than yesterday?" The answer may be to go do something you enjoy for a few hours to distract yourself from thinking about your H's behavior.

'til later,
KAW