Thanks for checking in Dave. I just got done reading your whole sitch. Well most of it anyhow it was pretty long. It seems that things are going in the right direction for you. It looks like it is a time for a decision on your W's part right now. I really hope that if you end up moving back home that it is not too fast and things don't go backwards.
On my side I know that I was to back off on what she is doing. She may be even testing me on whether or not I notice she removed her status. Trying to test the waters as to whether I am checking up on her or not. Or it could be that she wants to just feel like she is single. There is OM. I don't know and probably never will know.
The problem that I have right now is that there is absolutely no contact with her. We do not have kids so there is no reason for either of us to contact each other on that front. I would not leave the home so she is in her apartment. While it is probably best right now for no contact as she will hopefully stop blaming me for everything in her life. I do want to at least have some form of communication with her. It won't be today or even this week I realize but I am not sure how to rebuild the R or commmunication with her when we don't even talk. It has been one week since she moved out and I sent her a text on Sunday saying Happy Anniversary. Other than that nothing.
Well one day at a time and see where things go from here.
"Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well" Matthew 6:33
