Unstoppable

[dday101798]

hmmmm,

I guess that's where our similarities part way. After visitation and custody was established even in temporary sense, my XW atleast was cordial enough to allow some wiggle room on ocnflicting schedules. Of course at first, I didn't bite, but after a while a reassurances from my L that such wiggle room is allowable so long as both parents agree, I have.

We haven't had many situations that involved which one of us should go to a event if it were impossible for both of us to go. About the only one sticking out is a birthday party for a mutual friends child that after some clarification, XW wasn't even invited to in the first place.

Other than that, I hosted a birthday party at our house for a mutual friend and XW showed up. It was ackward for the most part, but on eof those more 'positive' event leading up to the D.

Both events are journalized here somewhere.

Ahhh, the old, "I get so nauziated when I'm around you" bit. And I always asked, why is that. "You make my ulcer act up". Heh, ok, if life's so much better without me and having to deal with the promisses made in life, why have an ulcer?