Good job on avoiding the phone call with H and good luck with the Apartment.
I think its good that you are taking a step towards child support. He needs to help you whether he can or not.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10