For the Guy with Kids and a WW 24

[kat727]

Forgive me whatdid for speaking out of turn. I think in her case, if her H had "moved on and dated" it would have closed that door for reconsiliation. I don't think it sends a message that you are still working on the marriage. Maybe it is a guy thing, I don't know.

I have been divorced now almost a year, I was separated a year before that and I just couldn't date anyone if I wanted to save my marrriage. I go out with friends now but not dating. I'll get there, keep pushing me a little.

kat