I let my W know that I wasn't sleeping in any other room or bed than my own. I told her it's her decision where she sleeps. She spent a few nights on the couch, but now is back. Further, I told her that if we did decide to separate, I didn't see any reason why I should leave the house or the bedroom. She had no come back to that. It hurt telling her those things, but it is important. 3 days after telling her this, she told me she wants to try the Retrouvaille weekend.


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.