Newbie (again)

[dday101798]

Heh, guess I ahve a new little issue. I respectfuly declined the offer to stop by for a drink today sighting that I just maybe see the kids tonight as something weird is going. Friend that invited me over then asked if I ahd called S12 this morning. I said no, not much sense since I don't know where they are ot and most likely XW is not around them as I have to go through her phone.

Friend negatively repsonded, well why don't they have a phone where yuo can reach them, what the heck is that, why do you have to go through her, that's so messed up, yadda yadda yadda.

And, I snapped. I guess I've subliminally weeded out those who only reflect back on the divorce and belittle XW. I'm sick of hearing about it. I'm sick of being around people who just want to talk about THAT. XW divorced me, not anyone else, let it be already for pete's sake. They didn't have to endure first hand what I did. I don't have to endure what I do everyday as a result.

Ugh. I know I already catagorized those that support(ed) or acceptted the affair as people I don't need in my life and that's quite a few as it is. Well, maybe the same approach I just took with this one is all it takes for one by one people to get the hint.

Anyway,

I texted XW beforehand that I was sorry for not calling S12 back last night as I was busy trying to get my cousin's van fixed and back to him and ran late. No reply (what a shock)