On the bright side, when we talk, it's good. We don't argue, we usually talk about what H is doing in his training that day, or waht I'm doing at work.
He asked what I was doing when I was on my lunch break, and I said "Oh, just driving around..." And he asked if everything was OK. So he showed some concern, I guess We don't talk about DD too much because he misses her so much. Joked about how if he went to Lollapalooza the weekend before my due date, I would kill him - Tool, Rise Against, Thievery Corporation, Kings of Leon... he would be a dead man and I'd hate him forever...
I just don't get where he thinks our marriage is in the toilet. We get along so well. We laugh at the same things. We understand each other better than anybody else ever will. Sometimes when we talk, it's like nothing is different than it was six months ago.
Me - 30, H - 32 T - 10, M - 6, D - 1 DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2 on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10) Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011