I did talk to H for about half an hour on my lunch break yesterday - one thing he did confirm was that he is out of money until his payday (Friday). I told him that he owed me about $400+ for bills right now in addition to half of his half of the mortgage.
Trying to find a nice yet firm way to say that - hey, when we bought this house together six months ago, there was an implied commitment on your part to taking care of the bills, and I'm going to hold you to it. I refuse to have to sacrifice any more than I am right now in order to subsidize his existential crisis.
Me - 30, H - 32 T - 10, M - 6, D - 1 DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2 on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10) Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011
