2. He will keep me involved in his office (I have no intention of letting this happen again).
You say "keep" you involved. What are some of the ways he's doing this now? What things do you do that seem to help encourage him doing this? When is he involving you most often, and what are both you and he doing during these times?
5. He will be able to tell me things he does not like without feeling he is letting me down (getting better).
What's different during the times when it's better? What are you yourself doing during these times that might be making it easier for him? What are some specific things that you can do more of to get these positive responses from him?
JJ
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