Had a great day with S3 - spent the day at W's uncles house working on him learning how to swim. Of course W called to see how he was. Later in the afternoon W called to see how he would be when she came to pick him up from home. Told her that at noon already he was saying that he wanted to stay at home and not go sleep at Nana's with mommy. Got a brief lecture - I knew this would happen - that's why I wanted him to sleep over tonight and not last night so that it would be only one night and I would get him from your parents after work. Apologized to her my mistake - thinking not worth the fighting - you're the one that wants me to have him more often - better to just let her win. We spoke at bed time on the phone, for about 10 minutes - a long time for us lately - spoke about how each others day was, and what we did - her at work and me with S3. Wished her a good night/sweet dreams, and a great day at work - she wished me the same.
Life is ironic - as I am typing this in she called me up at work - we talked for about 10 minutes - mainly about finances and the mortage payment scheduling - about my friend staying with me at the house until his job transfer goes through at the end of the month. Got questioned about him using the computer and everything else at the house. She mentioned it because she saw him on facebook last few nights - I made the mistake of assuming that she gets to spend alot of time on facebook - tone in her voice changed - and she said oh and you don't? Apologized and said no not really - just occasionally - she said well then don't assume.
She told me she would call me later - At this point I think when I speak with her later I am going to bring up Retrouvaille again, to see where she stands about me signing us up for it, if she is still willing to participate.
Me 35 W 30 S 3 M 7 : T 13 yrs Separated 2/20/09 My Story
