Thinker,
I have contacted the host couple of Retro here in my area, and am waiting for a call back. I just learned that we both have to speak to the hosts before we are registered. So far, W said she'd be will ing to go. I don't know what her level of commitment is, but after a couple of months of not wanting to fix the M, she is going.
The open heart and mind thing makes me nervous, too. Also, she doesn't know about the cost or the follow up sessions yet. I don't want to turn her off before we even begin.
I, too have high hopes for the weekend. I have been reading positive testamonials and hope that I can add one when we are finished, but nothing is guaranteed.
I keep praying the Rosary daily asking Mary to pray for our marriage. So far, my W has softened a bit. Maybe there is more in store for me.
Either way, I think I share your emotions on the subjects of our Ws and Retro.
I will continue to pray for you.


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.