Nice chat. You held your ground on some points, but I agree w the rest that you are still enabling her CONFUSION. Her BLAMING YOU. She has NOT taking RESPONSIBILITY and is still STUCK.
I think you are making the right decision by taking this job. I think that you should SHOW her that you are MOVING on instead of ASKING her.
She has NO CLUE what she WANTS.
All I see with her is one word ENTITLEMENT. Which is the same word killing this country everyday. She thinks because you neglected her and hurt her that she is ENTITLED to PUNISH you to treat u like this. She needs to grow up and learn to FORGIVE and MOVE ON. She has absolutely no idea how hard her life is going to be without you around. Unfortunately, because of her immature, stubborn mentality she is going to LEARN the hard way.
Nice job again on holding SOME of your ground. You're getting better but you are still trying to CONVINCE her. You still think it's a matter of the right WORDING and she will say "You're right C. I want to come back too" Even if you did coerce her to say this. She would just flip flop right back around the next day. You need to DETACH and LET her to WORK on her stuff.