Everything has been status quo. We have been getting along fine. Even have had some laughs along the way. I've been GAL'ing and keeping myself in me. Working hard at being present and it's really made a difference for me.
I took the kids to see an air show on Saturday- it's WW I biplanes and a show I used to go as a kid. I packed a picnic lunch and we sat on a blanket, ate, and watched the show.
Sunday the four of us went to a birthday party for one of my son's schoolmates. We had a good time and the kids loved it. My W and I interacted well and we played with the kids. Later on in the night she came into my room and said she had a really nice time and that kicked off a small talk conversation.
My W is going away for the weekend for her 20 year high school reunion down on Long Island. I'm going kayaking Saturday morning (my SIL is watching the kids) and then on Sunday we're going back for the air show. They have a different show on Sunday's where they actually dogfight and drop 'bombs'. When we went last Saturday the conditions were really windy so they ended up giving everyone a rain/windcheck for a free admission - so we're going back this weekend. My kids loved it and I think they're gonna flip out on Sunday because it's a much better show.
So that's the short update.
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