what i find difficult about all of this is that my instincts tell me to do one thing, yet i am supposed to do the exact opposite. i now wonder if the W is telling everybody that the D is happening (she has yet to tell me), what would it do to just file the papers and have her served with them? they can always be rescinded anyway.......
btw, had minimal only necessary contact. a text about our son traveling with my parents, and two e-mails i sent regarding different benefit plans (open enrollment). made it, but man that was tough.
