W came back in my office and continued to talk to me about how much I have hurt her over the past 3 years. I did more listening this time.
She said that she hopes I understand the sacrifices she made during our marriage and how they came from her love for me.
She said she just wanted me to love and respect her and she could not live like this anymore.
She said she never thought she would be 38 years old and starting over and she never thought she would be the kind of person who would have an affair.
I continued to listen. She once again apologized for hurting me by having an affair and said that was never her intent.
I finally said, I appreciate you sharing all of this and know you are going through a tough time. But, I need to get to work. Can we talk some more when you get home tonight.
She is still talking about divorce.
Again, need some advice on how I am handling this and what I should do tonight when she gets home.
Me 38 / W 37 M 14 yrs S 11/S8 First Bomb: 3/6/2009 EA Second Bomb: 6/4/2009 PA Same House Separate Rooms
