C I can understand your feelings and feel the same MY xh plans didnt work out either I think they do plan this great escape and how wonderful it will all work out I see and speak top my xh daily as I am his secretary I see confusioon, he makes mistake after mistake with work I hear depression in his voice I see the opposite of a happy, content upbeat person I see the happiness in me..funny thing is he left to find it and I GOT IT! I think that is from the willingness toi NOT RUN,,we get it the joy from facing our stuff..again something my xh has not been able to do Im beginning to think maybe some of them will NEVER really come out of the fog and will stay mentally ill till the end peace
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