Great work on the combined sorting out your D problem, and letting him lead too. I was very intersted that he is starting to spend more time at home, a positive sign?! I noticed my H changed in other positive ways around the same time, perhaps you could check these areas:
- more information without me requesting it on what he has been doing away from home - more phone conversations in my presence - more general respect towards me, pleases and thank yous - started to notice and articulate the odd positive thing about me "oh you are skinny now" -more interest and starting to enjoy kids again.
All very small doses of course.
I think that your H asked you for feedback on his handling of your D as he is not used to you letting him lead in peace! Thats ok, he just doesn't know you are doing a 180 on this issue. I tryed to say to my H, we have very different ways of doing things, you got the desired results your way too, good on you etc.
