So W comes to me this morning and says she is sorry that she hurt me regarding the affair.
She says that doesn't change anything about filing for D, but she is sorry that she hurt me.
I said thank you that means alot
I said I'm certainly sorry for the things I have done that hurt you.
I also said that I do not want a divorce, but understand that she needs to do what's best for her.
She said she refuses to live like this anymore. Says that Monday night when I kicked her out of bed and treated her like a whore and didn't comfort her as she cried was the last straw.
She said she was planning to speak with an attorney and I said OK. I told her that that I will also go retain an attorney, new checking account, stop 401K contributions, switch direct deposit.
She gets upset and says I will try and screw her during a divorce by bringing up the PA with OM so she will not get alimony.
Says that 3 years ago she used to feel like the most important woman in the world and now she feels like a crack whore.
I'm not sure I handled this interaction very well. Any advice?
Last edited by lowneil; 07/15/0912:36 PM.
Me 38 / W 37 M 14 yrs S 11/S8 First Bomb: 3/6/2009 EA Second Bomb: 6/4/2009 PA Same House Separate Rooms
