I was not snooping dfb: I always get the mail from the box and always go through it because my H never checks it. If it were for him, we'd have no water, electricity, or credit cards. And I wish I could stop being suspicious. I need to know where that particular mental switch is: I cannot find it. It was all I could do to stop everything I was supposed to be doing and come to the BB instead.


"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little" Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"