i have trouble updating both of my threads at the same time!
i have an appt with attorney for tomorrow, i decided its time to request support. i intend to tell my attorney to convey the following message:
i do not want wish to proceed with a separation/divorce at this time, especially because of our financial situation. any money we have left is needed to supply son and i with new residence and vital living expenses. what i do want and need right now is child support/spousal support.
i found an apt i like, can get it for august 15, which is good for starting the school year. problem is the money. few apts on long island, whatever there is, is rather pricey. have to figure it all out, will need my family to help in the meantime.
h called yesterday, i answered and said, hey, im on another call, will have son call u back. ok? bye.
i was proud. son called him later on...i had some things to discuss with him, but since they werent life threatening, i chose not to get on the phone because i was so proud for not talking earlier...
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09