SMW,

The OW more than likely has had affairs before:that`s prob the one thing she is very good at-serially stealing other husbands. She`d probably prefer a husband to someone single actually, I`m begining to believe that some women like that challenge of taking the forbidden.

I knew she was a lot older. I`m just trying to figure why he`d bother with her. Intimacy didn`t take a priority for me when the kids were younger. H maintains he`d tried to tell me how to improve in that department but I wouldn`t listen. Is H givng you any clue at all what the heck that woman has that you don`t?

No, don`t ask him though! Just try to fiugre it out! Might just be that she doesn`t have kids.