Well, S6 went on to "you made him leave" over and over and S9 (Confucius) says "you can't make someone leave, people make their own choices" and S6 says "you made him leave because you were upset all the time"...ouch, true in many ways and yet I'm not so sure that H didn't have something to do with his coming up with that.
And then...of course..."Daddy doesn't like us anymore and that's why he doesn't want to be here. He doesn't like us." And S9 asking "do you think eventually he'll come home?"
And, why do I find it so hard to let this happen??? F*ck Sh*t F*ck...too much.
I'm ok. I handled it very well and I made it very clear that we both love them and hugged them and told them I am here for them if they need to talk or get these feelings out. At one point S6 said it makes him too upset to talk about and he is trying to make those feelings go away...
They just told H today that he's "the best dad in the world."
