And the Lord giveth Miracle Grow when all else fails.
When you look for hope, you find it. When you look for failure, that pops up, too. They say actions speak louder than words. She moves out.. but loves you, you're her hero, needs to be a couple. Me.. I'm clueless.
Time away with the daughter and grandbump must touch something deep in the heart. "No expectations, no intentions." "Give out what you want to receive."
We learn all sorts of ways to exist and grow through this experience. What I learned was to listen to my Bullsh*t Meter and my inner voice. At some point the improving, positively empowered person starts to emerge.
If it feels right to do it... do it. If it feels wrong, don't do it. If you waffle or can't decide.. don't do it.
The interesting thing is that if something is a good idea now, it will still be a good idea in a day, weekend, week, etc.
What do you do when you talk to her? Ask about her, what's been going on, was it a good trip, how's the babybump. Nourish her with the miracle of what is growing within you. You can be focused yet detached, loving without pursuing. Like a gardener you know the difference between a weed and a bud, when to prune, pluck what's dead, keep what's needed for the health of the plant.
