Saw the MC today by myself. Thought she would be able to give me some insight, having talked to W by herself.
Bottomline is that she says that W really seems to care for me tremendously, that W speaks highly of me, MC speaks highly of our R given what she heard from both of us independently, says that our R is very symbiotic and we're great friends. She also said that W's remark about her secretly wishing I'd get a job out west might be that she's testing the waters with me about being together. She said that W's R with her parents appears to be so dissappointing and unfulfilling to W that she lacks even that basic feeling of unconditional love from her parents, and that she therefore is unable to give unconditional love herself.
She then asked if W and I had had any convo about what our sitch is now, where do we stand? I told her that I am reluctant to bring it up because we usually have a good time together, so I don't want to spoil the mood. I also said that I don't want to pressure her either. She agreed that early on it's not a good idea, but if several months go by I should bring it back up. And that I can bring it back up without pressuring by asking about her, about if things turned out like she thought for her. Or (and this sounds like a better avenue to me) ask her about the moving remark, does he really want to move?
I don't know... Maybe I have to sleep on it for a little bit... but first a glass of wine!
