You are right; I agree with you completely. I continue working on myself and moving towards greater detachment. Believe me, I'm long past griping about how unfair it all is. I realize that I need to minimize the impact my W's crisis is having on me, not just for me but for my kids and the rest of the family.
Thanks for the continued feedback, I appreciate it.
M: 41 W: 39 S: 11 S: 10 D: 4 1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09 EA began: 2/14/09 EA discovered: 3/1/09 I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself _______________________________