I don't know what you do for work, but your twins are young... (and can't remember is StepS lives w/mom or what), but it appears you both loved the Southwest. Is this something to consider?
Also, it appears you are rescuing her a lot...
Do you two ever do anything w/out the kids?
Glad to see you back!!!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.