If this is what my wife is feeling, I may be in a lot of trouble. I honestly thought I was doing what was right, though as I look back I realize a lot of it was self-deception on my part. My illusions are being stripped away. But I doubt she's going to believe me on this - she even said "you've told me in the past you'd change, and you never did."
Well, when the requests for change are vague, the response may be vague. Not that that helps me any now. I just hope I can show her some real change before she files.
Me: 35 W: 31 D10, S7, S2, S11 months M: 11 years Tricked into separation. In Last Resort.
My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1800530#Post180053