Well, she just called me and wants to come by and get the boys and "her" car (actually it is mine, she just drove it). Doesn't want to discuss anything except at a neutral location with a pre-determined itenary. I'm beginning to see the writing on the wall and it isn't pretty. But I still feel like asking her about the affair. Is that a mistake? I know that I was wrong and (at least partly) responsible for driving her away, but now I am just feeling used and abused. How should I handle this to retain some dignity and respect? I'm afraid of the BigD, but it is looking more and more inevitable.
Separated 40 y.o. man who blames himself for his WAW and hopes to reunite and repair relationship and family.
