Advice please, My WAW returns tomorrow from visiting OM 1000 miles away. I am 99% certain that they were having a PA, but I don't know for a fact. There is still that 1% chance. Do I just come out and ask her? And what is the best way to respond if they were (knowing that I would still like to save our marriage but that I will be crushed by the news). I fault myself dor her leaving, but not for this! But, somehow, I still love her and really hope that we can save the relationship. I want her to see me as a better option and I am afraid that my natural reaction to news of a PA will just drive her away. What is the best way to handle this situation? Is there anyone who has succesfully navigated this kind of minefield? How did you do it?
Separated 40 y.o. man who blames himself for his WAW and hopes to reunite and repair relationship and family.
