Well, not that it matters now, I did talk to her about the trial sep. with sep living situations. She agreed to give it a month or more for trial, and I explained that this is not only for me, but more for her.
I can guarantee you, SHE did not see it this way. She sees this as you supplicating, and pursuing.
You need to convey more of a sense of "I'm not sure WHAT I want . . . maybe you're right . . ." -- a la Gucci's advice.
In my opinion. But I guess I'm just a little frustrated tonite that people keep asking for advice, and then they can't even wait an hour or two before reacting.