Sorry your reconciliation isn't going the way you expect.
It takes time to change the patterns we develop in our M's.
There is movement forward and a step backward.
Hope you are just venting- if you feel you are being mistreated, what can you do for yourself to feel differently. Sometimes we expect our partner to make us feel one way or another when it is really our responsibility to manage our own needs.
H's behavior is typical of A, and WAS. It doesn't change overnight... you have been patience and forgiving... if your forgiveness is real, then it is time to do something different on your part. Figure it out if you can... would like to see things get better b/c I know they will in time.
