I am not so sure she will not contact and expose him to his wife, she is thinking about it, I would guess. In her mind she may be thinking, if she knew, she would leave him, and then he would come to me, and we would live happily ever after. Watch out.
I agree with Burt. I don't think it's a good sign. Something is brewing in her mind.
I am second this. She HATES this other wife. The question is was she in love with the other man or was he just something on the side.
not giving advice here, just posing a question; if she is planning on doing something to further F'up these families would it seem more appropriate that Neil does the exposing to the OM's wife?