As always, your words of wisdom are so right. Even though my situtation is that of a WAH, vs. that of a WAW, I STILL believe our situations are almost exactly the same. You hit the nail on the head, m'fried.
And MW, your IC is exactly right. I had a personal IC/friend of mine tell me the same exact thing about my H as your IC told you. It is something, or someone from their PAST that is getting to them/something they never dealt with and now they must because it is slapping them in the face. We are not their problems (although, albeit, we contributed to them). We just happen to be in their way.
Listen to Jimbo. Follow his lead. Watch what he says. He usually spot on!
