Thanks V, I think IC told H the story about "sour grapes" and it seemed to stick in his mind. We talked about the instant gratification thing before and he was totally surprised that he is like that and is only seeing it for the first time. Told me to remind him of it when I see it - but I don't think I will only b/c I don't want to be his therapist. What I need to hear is that it gets better -
Another thing - to both our surprise... ex sponsor called H the other day to check up on him. They had a good convo and sponsor told H that even though he is no longer a sponsor - H should feel free to call if he ever feels like it. H felt good about that interchange and says he will call once in a while.
